The Carter Family

February so far...

2012-02-16T10:25:00.000-06:00

Well, Valentine’s has come and gone – and February is now halfway over! Time is just going by way too fast.

Jesse had the big 3-0 birthday yesterday. We got sushi take out (girls opted for hamburger happy meals, imagine that) – went home, and enjoyed a meal together. Then it was bath time, which he had to take care of because I had cookies to bake…. Once the girls were in bed we watched an episode of Smallville (yes, I am totally addicted to shows like Smallville…One Tree Hill…Pretty Little Liars… the list goes on). But Jesse likes to watch them to, so it works. J And the rest of our evening consisted of me falling asleep on the couch. Jesse’s been out of town quite a bit this month with the Dixie Nationals in Jackson. He wasn’t even home for Valentine’s day… but at least he got to be home for his birthday. He even hid my Valentine in my truck Sunday before he left, so Tuesday morning I had a text to check my passenger visor. And I got a sweet card from Caleigh.. so I was a happy girl. But he leaves again today. L Good thing is I get to cuddle with my girls all night. Bad thing is that I have the HARDEST time getting out of the house on time anyway, and when he’s gone… well… Let’s see.. Monday I did not wake up until 7:30 am (which is when I need to be walking out the door but I apparently did something seriously wrong with my alarm clock) – so I had to check Caleigh in right before 9AM, and I was an hour late for work. The next morning, I got up early, and still ended up late. Abbey was running a low grade fever, so I had to get her some meds, and make sure they both had all of their stuff for valentine’s day. I was only 5 minutes late that day….

A little more technologically advanced...

2012-01-23T13:36:00.001-06:00

I FINALLY got an iPhone. I got a Blackberry in Oct 10 (and I thought I was cool then…) – and I swore up and down that I did NOT want a touchscreen… Then CSpire started selling the iPhones…and I started having trouble with my Blackberry (seriously, it didn’t just ‘conveniently’ mess up… well, I guess it was pretty convenient, but it was not my fault!). So after getting some good cookie $$, I convinced Jesse to let me upgrade. I am totally in love with this phone – I didn’t know what I was missing! I think one of my favorite things to play with are the multiple photo editing apps. LOVE IT!

OK, this last picture is of a Skinny Cow ice cream sandwich (MINT) - which is ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL! It was actually after 11PM last night when I decided I needed a snack. Probably not the best thing to do, especially since I'm trying to shed some pounds... but It was calling my name. :-)

Only Tuesday?

2012-01-17T14:45:00.000-06:00

No pictures yet… just haven’t had time to do it.

I took on the biggest single order I have ever gotten – 150 cookies – and have been quite the busy girl.

Fortunately I was able to take off work early yesterday, so I got to spend time with my girls AND work on finishing up those cookies. Now I have 2 other orders to take care of this week… but no worries. I always manage to get everything done (even if it means getting very little sleep). It would be nice to sit at my new kitchen table (that my dad built for me – I need to post a picture of that too – it’s awesome!). But it is currently covered up by cookie sheets…cookie boxes…wax paper…you get the idea. Jesse is someone who HATES clutter. I can’t say I like it, but it just really gets under his skin. Unfortunately, it’s been a constant thing at our home. Our loveseat has turned into a clean laundry catcher (goes out of the dryer and to the loveseat – and if we are lucky, we’ll get that laundry put away before another load is added to it). Mail and schoolwork usually hits the kitchen counter, then on to the kitchen table when the counter needs to be occupied by, I don’t know, cooking maybe?? We should actually try to have more people over. Seems like when we know we are having company, it takes no time to get the house cleaned (just don’t open our bedroom door, or something may fall on you…). It’s particularly embarrassing when Jesse forgets to tell me that the pest control guy is coming until after he comes…and I’m mortified at what he has seen (like certain types of laundry that may be in clear view…if you get my drift). Oh well, such is life.

And if anyone is actually reading this, it’s way more fun to read blogs when pictures are involved. So I will try to step up my game (sooner than later – but I make no promises).

I'm BACK! I think.... :-)

2012-01-11T13:57:00.001-06:00

I think I might give this blogging thing another go. I got a bit sidetracked by facebook… but it’s so much more fun to blog. Don’t get me wrong, I still check out fb daily…. but it’s just been irking me lately. It’s been WAY too long since I’ve posted what’s going on in our lives. I have a hard enough time keeping up with my cookie blog – but I’m going to give it my best shot!

To catch up – my two sweet girls are growing up way too fast. Caleigh will be 7 in March, and Abbey will be 4 in April. It just blows my mind how big they are getting – and how smart they are. Caleigh is in 1^st Grade at New Hope – and has had all A’s since starting in K, and has only had to change her light 1 yellow 1 time! I’m so proud of her – just wish we could get a little of that good behavior at home. But I guess I’d rather her be a spitfire at home if it means she is good everywhere else….

On a completely different note…we have Abbey. Who is the total opposite of Caleigh. She gives ‘spitfire’ a whole new meaning. She is super stubborn, hilarious, sweet, loud, crazy…I could go on and on. Caleigh has always been the quiet, reserved one. And Abbey decided she would shake things up. She is so animated – I don’t know where she gets it! But, she is so quick to thank you for something. She was even looking through her scrapbook last night, and saw the pictures from her 1^st birthday party. There was one where Caleigh was helping her open a gift, and so she leans over and gives Caleigh a big hug and says ‘Thank you Caleigh for helping me open my presents!’. So sweet! And Caleigh is so willing to do for others – both my girls are the BEST! And I don’t know what I would do without them!

Well, hopefully I’ll be back on here soon with updated pictures and such.

Kissed?!?

2009-03-17T11:04:00.001-05:00

My sweet little 4 year old informed me last night that she was kissed by someone in her class. KISSED?!? So I was desperately trying not to laugh (and of course Jesse wasn’t there to hear it first hand), and I asked her who it was. So she got all shy and said ‘Avery’ – and right now I’m not sure which one that is, so I will definitely have to find out. I asked her what he did and she said ‘like this’ and she kissed me on the cheek (much to my relief). I asked if she’d told anybody, and she said she told Ms. Leah – and proceeded to tell me that ‘kids aren’t supposed to kiss other kids’. So I asked what she did – and her response was ‘I didn’t kiss him back’ – PHEW! I waited until she went back to her bedroom and I called Jesse (took me a couple of minutes to tell him because I was laughing so hard). Of course he didn’t like it too much. :-)
On a different note, I finished ‘Twilight’ last night. I stayed up until 11:30 because I absolutely had to finish it. It’s been a while since I’ve been able to get into a book and want to finish it – but I tell ya, this one has me hooked. After some coaxing from Mariam, I bought the book Saturday – and stayed up until 1:30 Sunday morning reading. I did not want to put it down! So I’m going today to buy the 2nd book in the ‘saga’. I am very anxious about the DVD release this weekend – I’ve already told Jesse I’ll be buying the movie.

Caleigh Turns 4!

2009-03-10T15:10:00.008-05:00

Caleigh’s birthday was yesterday (March 9th), but we had her party Saturday (March 7th). We could not have asked for the weather to be any better than it was – it was absolutely beautiful! Which was great so we were able to spend most of the time outside. The kids enjoyed jumping on Caleigh’s new trampoline (and so did I!). Then yesterday I took the day off work to spend with Caleigh. It was just me and her – Jesse had to work and Abbey went to daycare. The weather was still wonderful, and it was a really good day. We played outside, picked up Jesse for lunch, went to McDonald's (she actually wanted Pepper's, but we didn't have time to do that if Jesse was going with us), took Jesse back to work, and went to town for a while. Then we had to get ice cream of course! I can’t believe she’s 4!! Last night I fixed her some chocolate milk in a sippy cup. She took a swig and said, ‘oh wait, I forgot, I don’t need to drink out of a sippy cup anymore’ – so I asked ‘so you think that since you are 4 you don’t have to drink out of a sippy cup?’ – her response was ‘well, yeah’. Like, ‘duh mom’…. Here are some pics from the party.

Beautiful Weekend!

2009-02-09T11:45:00.001-06:00

We had such a good weekend – the weather was perfect! Jesse had gone to Jackson to work at the Dixie National Friday and Saturday, so me and the girls loaded up and headed down there Saturday morning. Jesse’s cousin Dan and his wife Shealyn and there 2 kids live in Brandon & there little girl Reagan was having her 2nd birthday party – so we went there while Jesse was working. Caleigh had a great time jumping on the trampoline (so of course now she wants one), and we ended up spending the night there. Jesse actually got off early – so it worked out pretty good. We hung out Sunday morning, went to lunch – and got home much later than we had planned, but it was worth it to get to enjoy the beautiful weather and spend time with family. I am keeping my fingers crossed that we have weather like this the weekend of Caleigh’s party. On her 2nd birthday it was absolutely perfect weather (much like it was this weekend), and last year it snowed. So there is no telling what the weather will do – I’m just going to hope for the best.

9 Months old already?!

2009-02-05T15:14:00.005-06:00

I can't believe that Abbey is already 9 months old! The time is flying by so fast. This is actually the dress that Caleigh wore when she was 9 months.

My Silly Caleigh

2009-01-22T13:02:00.006-06:00

Caleigh loves to paint - especially if I leave my paints out. You can't really tell it from the pictures, but that's what she was doing here. She gets so matter-of-fact and tells me exactly what colors she wants and what she's going to make. She usually just makes a big ol' mess, but it's so fun to watch her.

More pictures

2009-01-16T11:51:00.007-06:00

Here are some more pics that I couldn't load the other day....

Happy New Year!

2009-01-12T12:37:00.005-06:00

It seems like Monday comes around all too quickly. And why does it seem that everything that can go wrong always goes wrong on Mondays? Not too sound like I'm complaining - I'm so blessed and thankful to have started another week off with my family safe and healthy - and not too mention a job to go to. Things haven't been too exciting lately. My mom, Caleigh, and I went to Tupelo Saturday. I think Caleigh enjoyed being able to go because for the first time in a long time she didn't throw a screaming fit. She got quite delirious, which provided some good entertainment for us. Abbey has had a yucky cough. Jesse took her to the doctor this morning, but all we can do it keep giving her breathing treatments. At least it's nothing like bronchitis or something like that. Oh, and I had a dr. appointment this morning, or so I thought. I got up there and was called to the desk and was told that they had rescheduled my appointment, that Dr. Wood wasn't there today. So I asked - wasn't someone going to let me know?? So after I took the time off work today, I have to take more time off tomorrow to go to my 'rescheduled' appointment. On a positive note, it is a beautiful day outstide. Here are some pics I took recently.
For some reason I'm having 'technical difficulties' getting the other ones to post. I'll get some more posted later.

Christmas Pictures

2008-12-30T09:17:00.010-06:00

Happy Birthday to ME!

2008-12-30T09:08:00.001-06:00

Today is my birthday - I have made it to 28! I don't like the thought of approaching 30. I have accomplished many things over my 28 years, 3 of the most important are getting married to my wonderful husband, and having 2 wonderful experiences giving birth to 2 beautiful, healthy little girls. And yes, I did say 'wonderful' - I had some painful moments, as to be expected, but overall I couldn't have asked for a better experience.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

2008-12-24T08:24:00.001-06:00

Just wanted to wish everyone a MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! I hope everyone enjoys time spent with family and friends - but most importantly, remember the reason for the season!!

Just an FYI

2008-12-23T09:46:00.003-06:00

I've uploaded some pictures of my latest work - check it out if you want to:
http://leneymariedesigns.blogspot.com

My Little Superstar!

2008-12-23T09:17:00.006-06:00

Last Tuesday night Caleigh had her dance performance. She was sooo cute in her outfit and pigtails – but she got a bit shy on stage (what can I say, she gets it honest). She did do some moves, but you couldn’t tell any different because none of them were exactly working together real well (we are talking about a bunch of 3 year olds) – but that’s what makes it entertaining, right?

Abbey @ 7 Months

2008-12-16T14:23:00.007-06:00

Abbey turned 7 months old on November 29th. She is growing so fast - and developing such an amazing personality. She is such a happy baby. I just love both girls to pieces!!!

Pics from Graduation

2008-12-16T10:02:00.007-06:00

The Graduate....

2008-12-16T09:56:00.001-06:00

He finally did it! Ok, so he actually got his diploma in August, but it didn’t really feel ‘official’ until he walked across the stage. He walked Friday night (Dec 12). The girls and I rode over to Starkville with Mike and Diann (Jesse was already over there). We find Jesse and I bring my camera up to take a picture…..and to my extreme dismay….my battery is DEAD AS A HAMMER!! So Diann hands me hers, and I turn it on…..and her battery is dead too! I was SOOO upset. We found a place to sit and got settled and I just started crying. But then I remember that my battery charger was in my camera bag in the truck (I try to condense everything into one bag, and this is what I get). So after Jesse walks across the stage and sits back down, Mike and I head out to the truck. Of course we are on the complete opposite side of the building then where we came in, so we walked (or he walked, I had to jog to keep up). At any rate, we found an outlet right outside the section that we were sitting. I go to sit back down and as I’m walking down the steps I can hear Abbey crying. Apparently the noise had woken her up and she was not happy. Even though they tell you to hold the applause until the end, there are those select few that feel the need to holler. Granted, I certainly felt like yelling for joy when Jesse walked across that stage – but I also have respect for the other thousands of people in the coliseum. So I take her and go back up the steps; Mike gets her; I go back down the steps; and by that time the ceremony is over. Then it takes us FOREVER to walk just a few feet through the crowd to get to Mike and Abbey (and my battery, which I am praying is charged enough to get some pics). Finally some very nice lady lets us go through. We get some pics (below) and head back to Columbus to eat. We had planned on eating in Starkville, but decided it wasn’t the best idea with the number of people that were there that probably had the same idea. We arrive at The Grill about 10PM (and both girls are still awake – imagine that!). We headed home at 11PM, and the girls were passed out before we reached the bypass.

Long Awaited Move

2008-12-10T14:52:00.002-06:00

Just to follow-up, my brother is now in Winston County. His custody status has not changed, so he’s still only gets visits twice a month (2nd & 4th Saturdays), but it will be much easier to visit now.
If anyone is willing, please send him a Christmas card – it doesn’t matter if you know him or not – he’ll be glad to receive any correspondence from anybody:

Winston Co. Corrections
David Neyman, #108449
P.O. Box 1437
Louisville, MS 39339

He has not been assigned a zone yet, but this is the address given to send mail.
Thanks to anyone who will do this – it’s very much appreciated!!

Just Venting

2008-12-10T11:28:00.001-06:00

Ok, so I posted a ‘vent session’ yesterday, then I went back and deleted it. But here I am again. I am so fed up with all the crap surrounding my family. I think that sometimes people need to be reminded that we have ALL sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Also, let those without sin cast the first stone. I remind myself of these things every single day. I am the youngest of 4 children – one of whom passed away 6 years ago; one who lives in Arizona, the other in prison and then there is me. I sometimes feel that I am left alone to fight a battle that I cannot win. I am tired of feeling the need to defend myself and others, to the point where I am physically and emotionally drained. I try to tell myself that if anyone TRULY knows me and my family, then they know the real story. There are some people who have only been through a fraction of what I have, but choose to believe what they want. I don’t want anyone to think negative things about me, or anyone else, when it’s not warranted, when it’s not even close to the truth. It’s just been hard for me to move past things when certain individuals are treated differently based on fictional stories. It’s just gotten out of hand and I wish it would stop. I just ask for prayers for my family.

Good News...I think

2008-12-08T08:22:00.002-06:00

So my brother is finally getting moved closer – I hope. A while back he had been approved for transfer to the facility in Louisville (Winston Co.). He had a hold put on his transfer because they were trying to get him moved from B custody to A custody (not really sure what all this means, but it would have been a good move). And they only move B custody inmates to Winston Co. (not sure why this is the case, but that’s what David was told; my mother has actually been telling people something different – but that is false information – as well as another dysfunctional drama that would take me quite some time to explain). At any rate, his move to A custody was rejected, so they are transferring him. I assume it is to Winston Co, but who knows. I received a letter from him yesterday with a note on the outside saying ‘it’s Thursday morning and they are moving me’ with a question mark. It would be awesome for him to be closer. I’ve only seen him twice in the year that he’s been in Leakesville. It’s especially sad this time of year….
I can’t believe Christmas is only a few weeks away. I am trying to make all my gifts this year, as I don’t have money to spend, and I refuse to go into more credit card debt than I already am just to buy gifts that might never get used. It’s such a nice feeling to not have to worry about buying everyone something. After all, it’s hard to really remember the reason for the season when you are all wrapped up in making sure you get the best gifts for everyone.

Pictures from November 22nd

2008-12-01T11:06:00.017-06:00

Here are some pictures from my sister's quick MS visit (ok, so there's no pics of her, but I got several of the boys). The day didn't exactly go as planned, but for the most part the kids were oblivious to the turmoil. They just had fun playing outside (and giving me turkey feathers....which I graciously accepted, but the poop-covered ones ended up back on the ground when they weren't looking)...

Kid Movie - or not....

2008-12-01T08:45:00.001-06:00

Jesse and I took Caleigh to see Madagascar 2 yesterday afternoon. Although it was funny – I have to say it was not necessarily for a 3-year old (or any child for that matter). I do not understand why the creators of these movies think that they have to put tons of adult humor in them for them to be funny. I guess I understand that the adults need to get some humor out of them – but they should be made for the kids who will be watching them. I don’t know about you, but I don’t want my girls to start asking “those” kind of questions earlier than necessary – I want them to stay as innocent as they can for as long as possible. I know, I know – we took her to see it, but I just didn’t expect there to be SO much adult humor. It was a good movie, and I would watch it again – I just wish they would make more ‘G’ rated movies that are also fun to watch…….

Why can't we all just get along?

2008-11-24T09:07:00.001-06:00

I know that there is a certain level of dysfunction in everyone’s family, and I certainly don’t claim to have more than anyone else out there. I just wish differences could be put aside to be able to enjoy a couple of days with family. My sister and her two boys came to visit Friday & Saturday. We were supposed to have Thanksgiving dinner early (Saturday night), but things didn’t go as planned. I’ll spare you the ugly details….but it was by no means pleasant. I am glad that I was able to spend time with all my nephews (and watching Caleigh act as the ‘mama hen’ was amusing) – they played with the chikens and the turkeys (more like terrorized them), which also meant cleaning poop off shoes – but a good time was had by all the kids. Nothing has ever been ‘normal’ per se with my family – and there’s really no reason why things can’t be. I feel like I’m constantly fighting a losing battle – and it’s exhausting. And on top of that I was getting sick (sore throat, headache – just like everyone else around here I’m sure), so I didn’t even get out of bed yesterday until around lunch time. I ventured out to get some medicine and a few groceries and just laid low for the rest of the day.
I did manage to get some cute pictures of the kids Saturday, and I hope to get those up soon.
I do ask for prayers – particularly for one member of my family. I don’t want my girls to grow up with so much negativity as I did – there’s absolutely no need for it, and we only get one life to live here on earth, so we might as well make the best of it…..

New Venture...

2008-11-21T13:51:00.002-06:00

Well, I’ve started another blog for my creative side (http://leneymariedesigns.blogspot.com). I’ve put up a few pictures of random things I’ve done. I am trying to get in a mode of creating more things, and I’ll get more pictures up soon. My sister is in town this weekend and we are going to be busy painting and creating. I love to make things for people – and it would be great to be able to make a profit with it. It’s something I wish I could do full time (maybe one day!). Also check out www.personallypaintedgifts.com – which is my sister’s site.
Still more to come….

Wedding Pics

2008-11-20T08:00:00.016-06:00

Great Weekend

2008-11-18T11:24:00.001-06:00

We had a great weekend in Memphis – just wish it had been a little warmer. We stopped at the Wolfchase Galleria to grab a bite to eat (and feed a hungry baby). Boy, did I wish I had some money to spend there….. But Caleigh and I did ride the merry-go-round twice. Then she threw one of her famous fits in the food court and got spanked by her daddy and of course then I noticed that the people next to us kept staring – like ‘I can’t believe you just did that’.
Once we left there we got checked into the hotel and rested for a bit. We were going to leave the hotel around 3PM (the wedding started at 4PM)….so at 2:45 I started searching for Caleigh’s dress shoes and tights. I finally had to admit that I must have not put them back in her bag…OOOPS! Jesse suggested that we just let her wear her tennis shoes.. Are you kidding me?? Granted, neither Caleigh or I are big-time girly-girls, but come on – tennis shoes with her pretty dress?? There was a Target nearby that we stopped at and found some shoes and tights pretty quickly. Of course by that time Jesse and I both were fit to be tied (I with him and him with me)… So we made it to the church and it was a nice ceremony. The reception was held at the Farmer’s Market Agricenter. It was nice – but COLD! There was a band playing and good food, but wasn’t necessarily ideal for a 6 month old and 3 year old. Caleigh did exceptionally well though, I think she only had one good fit while we were there. I took some pictures and I’ll try to get those up soon.
We were back at the hotel at 7:30 and in the bed before 10PM (I know, kinda sad – but that’s life with 2 small kids in tow). Oh, and then we had a really yummy breakfast at ‘Bob Evans’ on Sunday (never been to one before then, but I would certainly recommend it).

TGIF!

2008-11-14T08:41:00.002-06:00

Well, I finally gave up and bought a new cable for my camera. Now that I bought one I’ll probably find the other one, but better to have 2 than none I suppose…..
Below are some recent pictures of the girls. I can be so frustrated with Caleigh and all I have to do is see her silly grin and it melts my heart. We had rounds again this morning. She got mad about EVERYTHING….she wanted to brush her teeth by herself…..put her shoes on by herself…..she didn’t want her jacket on, then she did…..and on, and on, and on. And she screamed every time. I was so frazzled by the time I left I just wanted to cry. I don’t want to rush either of the girls to grow up, but I long for at least one day that we don’t have to fuss and fight just to get out of the house in the morning.
It’s Friday again, thank goodness. We are going to Memphis tomorrow for Jesse’s cousin’s wedding and we’re going to spend the night. I’m looking forward to it – it’s always nice to get out of town.
I guess I better get back to work. I hope we can get internet back on at home soon before I get fired for being on it too much at work.....

So Silly....

2008-11-14T08:22:00.008-06:00

Abigail - 6 Months

2008-11-14T08:09:00.009-06:00

Another weekend gone....

2008-11-10T09:03:00.004-06:00

Well, it's Monday again. We had a pretty good weekend. Jesse, Abbey, and I went to Tuscaloosa Saturday to take care of some Christmas shopping. Caleigh stayed with Mike and Diann (Santa needs the element of surprise, right?). We weren't able to get everything taken care of, but we got the biggest item out of the way. We ate at Olive Garden for lunch (YUM!), but I had a major headache and was relieved when we finally headed home.
Then there's Sunday.... We got up to get ready for church (granted, I didn't get up as early as I needed to - but when do I ever??). So at 8:45 I was still not dressed, so we decided then we would not be making it to Sunday school. Caleigh was having meltdown after meltdown and I should NOT have thought it was so important to curl her hair (it must have still been damp the night before when she went to bed because it was all crinked up), but I wanted it to be cute. She was already screaming and crying when I started...then she started coughing (like she was trying to make herself sick) and spitting - so I lost my cool and yelled at her to stop and oh boy, that just really set her off. So Jesse made the executive decision for us just to stay home. I hate it when Sunday's start off so badly. It's supposed to be a day of rest - not STRESS! I really have to work on my level of patience.
I took some pictures of Abbey for her 6 month 'birthday' - although I was nearly 2 weeks over due. I somehow managed to misplace my USB cable for my camera, so as soon as I locate it, I'll get some pictures up. Oh, and Abbey is finally getting a tooth! Caleigh already had 2 on the bottom when she was 6 months, so Abbey's got some catching up to do. You can feel it just breaking through the gum.
Anyway....I hope everyone has a WONDERFUL week!

Exersaucer Fun

2008-11-07T10:08:00.006-06:00

Here are some pictures of Abbey playing in her exersaucer. This was such a great invention - both my girls have loved it.

Halloween Pics

2008-11-07T08:15:00.019-06:00

On Thursday, 10/30, we went to Mt. Zion’s Fall Festival. Caleigh was reluctant to play games (she’s shy just like her mama), but she did ride a pony and ended up having a good time. We stayed home on Halloween. We decided to cook some chili for Chris and Pegan’s last night in Columbus, and my mom also came over. Lori brought Landen and Presley over – it was really good to see them. Here are some pictures from both nights.

Caleigh went fishing......

And caught a green bear!

The absolute cutest cow you've ever seen!

Caleigh and her bestest friend Claire.

Me and my country cowgirl!

She was sooo exited about riding the pony.

Landen

Presley

What a Memory!

2008-11-06T07:51:00.002-06:00

Tuesday night I went to a Kairos support group at the YMCA downtown. For those of you who don’t know, Kairos is a prison ministry. Kairos Inside is where men actually go inside Parchmen and minister to the inmates. Kairos Outside is designed for women who have either been incarcerated, or have been affected by the incarceration of a loved one. I went on an ‘Outside’ weekend in September 2007 and it was wonderful. My brother was arrested in April 2007, and was sentenced with 20 years (but he won’t have to serve that long). It wasn’t the first time he had been arrested – but he couldn’t get out of it this time, thank goodness. I say that because if he had not been sent to prison, I am certain that he would be dead – or almost there. Meth is such a powerful drug that has ruined so many lives – and we just can’t get rid of it. I hope that he is there long enough to have a chance to stay off of it when he gets out (but that’s a choice he has to make….), If any of you know someone who would benefit from this – let me know and I can give you more information.
ANYWAY – One of the ladies there that night looked at me and said ‘Did your last name used to be Neyman?’. I said yes, and she told me she was Ms. Fisher – Mrs. Burris’s assistant teacher when I was in KINDERGARTEN! Now you tell me that’s not a good memory. I couldn’t believe it. Of all places to see someone over 20 years later…
On a different note, I hope to get some pictures from Halloween up soon so everyone can see my sweet girls……

2008-10-27T09:43:00.015-05:00

Saturday our whole family (Me, Jesse & the girls, Mike & Diann, and Chris & Pegan) went to Lake Lowndes to take some family pictures. Chris and Pegan are leaving Saturday (11/1)– moving to Kentucky, so we wanted to take an opportunity and get some pictures of all of us together. The ‘photo shoot’ didn’t go as well as I hoped it would. We got there around 3:30 and the sun was at the worst spot for picture taking. Caleigh threw fit after fit after fit and I was at my wits end soon after we started, which wasn’t good. I really don’t know what else to do at this point with her behavior – she is so sweet and smart, but can become SO ill-tempered at the drop of a hat. She doesn’t just cry – she SCREAMS. If someone were to here her scream like she does, they would probably think we were beating her. We spank, put her in time-out, talk to her, try to give her our undivided attention when we can, etc. Nothing works – she’ll be 4 in March, and I’m hoping the ‘terrible twos’ will play out eventually.
Anyway….enough about that. We did get a few good pictures, so it wasn’t a complete bust.

My Beautiful Girls

2008-10-13T11:00:00.013-05:00

I just wanted to share some pictures of my sweet girls.....

Here's my Caleigh bug - you can tell she was not happy about having to smile for the camera. She was more interested in the cartoons on the TV that she was missing....

Birthday Fun

2008-10-13T10:32:00.006-05:00

My mother-in-law’s birthday was Friday (Oct 10th), and we went to their house and ate pizza and birthday cake (YUM!). We usually go out to eat whenever it’s someone’s birthday, but the 4 of us (Mike, Diann, Jesse and I) are taking the Dave Ramsey ‘Financial Peace University’ classes at church – and are TRYING to save money and pay off some bills. So no more eating out (at least not like we used to). It is nice to just be home – although I hate cleaning up the kitchen after cooking. I sort of made a deal with Jesse – if I cook supper and clean up, then he has to wash bottles. I think it’s only fair!
Here are some pictures from Friday (as you can see Caleigh loved the pink icing from the cake).

The Joys of Parenthood - HA!

2008-10-09T10:28:00.003-05:00

I'm sure not everyone will appreciate this (although some of you fellow mothers might).
Jesse had to leave early this morning to go to Jackson to work for the day. He is usually the one who changes Abbey’s diaper in the morning, but since he was gone I had full parental duty all to myself. I was doing pretty good – I got out of bed early, took a shower, and got Caleigh up and ready for breakfast. I fixed Abbey’s bottle so it would be all ready for her when I got her up. So I go in her room and she’s just a talking and making those sweet baby noises. She sees me and gets the biggest grin on her face (which absolutely thrills me). I notice a bit of a stench of a dirty diaper. So I put her on the changing pad and we are talking and grinning and being silly. I get her yucky diaper off and am in the process of cleaning her up…when, well….I’ll spare you the details but apparently she wasn’t finished taking care of business. This happened 3 TIMES within a minute or so. The end of the changing pad was covered – an all the while she’s got this big grin on her face. It was a bit traumatic for me, but I finally managed to get her cleaned up and fed. Of course I call Jesse and let him know what he missed out on and how unfair it is that these things always happen when he’s out of town.
I still managed to get the girls dropped off and even had time to go by Hardee's on my way to work (I know – why would I even be hungry after that, but hey, a girl’s gotta eat).

2008-10-07T12:05:00.012-05:00

So here's some of the pictures that I took at Country Pumpkins. I think I took more pictures of the pumpkins then I did of my children, but I didn't have to fight with the pumpkins ;-).

2008-10-06T12:52:00.003-05:00

So Jesse and I got to go on a date Saturday night. We ate and went to see 'Fireproof' - if you haven't seen it - GO - and take your spouse or significant other. It was AWESOME! I'd love to go see it again. We also took the girls to the pumpkin patch (Country Pumpkins) in Caledonia Saturday afternoon. It was such a beautiful day - although I wish it had been a little cooler. The girls got cranky, so I didn't get as many cute pictures as I would have liked to, but it was still fun. Caleigh was excited about picking out some pumpkins - I let her get 6 of the tiny ones and boy was she proud. The girls stayed with Mike and Diann Saturday night - so it was quite relaxing to get to come home and not have to take care of anybody else but ourselves for a while.

I think I am getting closer to getting internet at home again - I'm anxious to get some pictures up. Well...gotta get back to work..... Hope everyone has a wonderful week!

2008-09-22T09:13:00.004-05:00

So we've taken another step to conserve money - sometime today our home phone will be turned off and we'll be just relying on our cell phones. I've had a land line for so long, it's going to be hard getting used to just using the cell phones, but it'll be about $50 we can put toward another bill. I won't get to talk to my brother any more - but I couldn't afford those call either, and I had gotten to where I was only talking to him once a month.
Diann and I and the girls went to Tuscaloosa Saturday. Caleigh was not in a great mood, so that meant neither was I... We went to Olive Garden when we got there to eat lunch and I was trying to feed Abbey, eat my salad, and had Caleigh hanging on to me - I'm getting better at multi-tasking. :-) I did finally get finished with my food - along with taking Caleigh to the bathroom twice (the second time I think she just wanted to get up and walk - she also whacked herself in the head with the changing table - the one that folds up). Abbey also 'took care of business' so I had to take her and change her diaper. It was also raining, which wouldn't have been so bad if Caleigh hadn't been so whiney. I know she'll grow out of it eventually, but then I have another one to fill her shoes all too soon. It's all worth it and I woudln't trade it for anything...but it would be nice to get through a day without wanting to pull my hair out. Oh well, I'm sure I won't be spared that feeling even when they leave the house, get married, and have children of their own.

Lessons Learned

2008-09-08T20:51:00.005-05:00

Well, I decided to share this story so maybe if someone reading had something similar to happen then they would know what could happen. Jesse's dad (Mike) had the metal part of a bungee cord hit him on his knuckle (index finger). He thought it was broke, but chose not to go get it checked out at the time. He and Jesse went to the hunting club in Noxubee Co. Saturday and by the time they got home it was red, swollen, and well...just plain yucky. So he and Diann headed to the emergency room and they admitted him - and did surgery Sunday morning to get the infection out. It got pretty bad pretty quickly. I don't know what kind of infection it was (what type of bacteria, etc - I'm not to good with the medical lingo, so I'm just trying to interpret what I hear said). Apparently pond/lake water is NOT a good thing to get in a cut, etc. He may get to go home tomorrow. He needs your prayers! I know it's painful for him and I'm sure it'll be awhile before he gets to use his hand (at least it was his left hand - he's right-handed)....he's worried about getting to go fly fishing in October :-).
On a different note...It's Monday again and I am trying to have a better outlook on things as I go through each day. Some days it's hard - but I know I'm blessed to be able to get up each morning and see my family. I haven't been feeling very well, and I'm trying to do what I can to take care of my family. I can't help but feel like I'm failing when I do things like I did today and come home and lay down in the bed for an hour while Jesse is taking care of the girls. He doesn't mind a bit - after all, he is their father, but as a mother I guess I'm just made to feel like it's my primary duty. I just hope that I can get over this 'hump' - whatever it is, and enjoy each day to it's fullest because there is absolutely no reason not to......

Well, I survived.....

2008-09-04T20:29:00.004-05:00

I got 3 wisdom teeth out Tuesday. My appointment was at 10:30 - and let me tell you, that valium makes you feel pretty darn good. I took it about 45 minutes before my appointment. By the time I got in the surgery room, all I remember is getting stuck in the arm and the doctor coming in and asking how I was. Of course, they had already taken my glasses so I couldn't see a thing anyway. The next thing I new I was in a different room with gauze stuck in my checks and a nurse telling me to keep my eyes open. I have no idea how I got into that room, much less how I actually made it out to the truck. The lortabs came in handy when the numbness wore off - but all in all, it was not as bad an experience as I anticipated. Although I am desperately wanting some FOOD - and by that I mean something other than tomato soup, pudding, or apple sauce. I'm just tickled that tomorrow is FRIDAY - although it's going to be a very busy day. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend - we are all blessed to see each day and I want anyone who's reading this that I appreciate everyone in my life - family, friends, co-workers, etc - you all impact my life in one way or another and I am thankful for it all - the good and the bad........

2008-08-28T20:28:00.005-05:00

It's been a pretty good day - especially since tomorrow's Friday!! I know I'm 'wishing my life away' but I can't help it - my first thought on Monday morning and each day when I wake up is 'I wish it was Friday...'. We took Abbey to the dr. yesterday for her 4 month check-up and shots. The shots weren't too bad - she did cry, but it didn't last long. She was smiling soon after they were over. She weighed 14 lbs, 12 oz - she's definitely healthy! We go back in 2 more months for more shots....
I am so glad we get a long weekend (although the thoughts of the hurricane are looming...). It's possible Jesse may have to go help evacuate some folks and there pets...but I hope he doesn't have to go. I want him to be able to help - but I guess I'm just being selfish. I'm actually going to be off next Tuesday and Wednesday - but it's certainly not for pleasure. I am getting my wisdom teeth out - the 3 that I have - Tuesday morning. I'm not looking forward to it - but I am looking forward to feeling better.
If anyone reads this - I hope you have a GREAT (and safe) weekend!!!!

2008-08-25T19:48:00.004-05:00

Caleigh had dance again today. Diann picked up her and Claire (her friend at daycare who is also taking lessons). Claire and Caleigh have a 'love-hate' relationship. Yes, I know they are only 3 - but one minute their best friends, the next they are fighting over a toy...it's only going to get worse. It's really cute to watch though. Caleigh is growing so fast. She even speaks better than I do, and she is always correcting me. It was a rainy Monday, which isn't a good combination, but overall the day wasn't so bad. After all, I am at home with my family which is all that counts. Well, guess it's time to wash clothes, fold towels, wash bottles..........

Finally the Weekend!

2008-08-23T18:14:00.005-05:00

Not that I have any special plans, but it's just nice to know I can do whatever I want (well, whatever I can with a 3-year old and almost 4 month old). It's also been raining ALL day so we haven't left the house, but sometimes it's nice not to have to load up and go anywhere. I really don't have anything interesting to talk about at the moment. I'm just thankful for an opportunity to be able to sit for a few minutes at the computer. Seems like life never stops these days. Abbey has been quite fussy today - we are pretty sure she is just teething. Caleigh never really gave us problems when she was teething, but this one could be different. I just want to make her feel better. She's really been 'cooing' today and it's been absolutely wonderful to listen to and watch her little eyes light up. Now I'm convinced her eyes are turning green. They stayed blue for the longest time, but we noticed basically a green ring around her pupil and that 'ring' seems to be getting bigger. Well that's all for today....

2008-08-20T22:13:00.003-05:00

I've made it to Wednesday - two more days to go! It was another busy day for us. I had a dentist appointment (getting my wisdom teeth out in about a week and a 1/2), and about the time I left there it started pouring down rain. I was hoping it would just pass through, but no such luck. And of course I was getting the girls from daycare (for some reason I've been the one getting the girls the last few times it downpoured). I decided to get Abbey first and by the time I made it inside I was already soaked. I got Abbey in the truck with help from a fellow parent, and making a mad dash back inside to get Caleigh when low and behold - Jesse shows up. I was already wet from head to toe so I just told him to go home... I don't even know why I tried using an umbrella - it was useless. Anyway... we all got home safe then had to turn around and get to the church (Caleigh has choir at 5:25). So 'why' you ask would I take the time to talk about something that is probably uninteresting to those of you who may be reading this?? Probably because it is after 10PM and I've taken some sinus medicine to try to aleviate this headache and I'm a bit on the loopy side. Guess I'll end it here and maybe my next post will have a bit more 'flair' to it......

2008-08-18T21:02:00.001-05:00

Well, it's Monday again.... I don't know why Monday's are always so exhausting. Caleigh had her first day of dance lessons today. I wasn't able to go (the lessons start at 4PM, and I don't get off until 5PM). When my in-laws brought her home she was red faced and her hair was wet with sweat (yeah, I know, kinda gross). It wore her out - she climbed up in my lap and was actually still for more than 5 seconds. I hope she'll sleep good tonight. Abbey was pretty happy today. She's started 'talking' - or I guess the correct term to use would be 'cooing' - a lot. It's funny to see her look at herself in her mirror in the car and do it.... I just love my girls!

2008-08-12T12:32:00.001-05:00

I'm finally catching up with the rest of the world..... Just to 'catch up' I have 2 absolutely beautiful daughters - Caleigh who is 3, and Abigail who is 3 1/2 months. I hope to get some pictures posted soon. Jesse and I have been married for 6 years now (I'm gettin old!). I have lots to tell, but not enough time at the moment. I'll post more soon.....